I saw this movie the other night and I thought I understood addiction but I didn’t so this post is my attempt to share what I learned with you. Dr. Gabor Maté says that every single person that is addicted to drugs has suffered some form of trauma. Every single one. The movie is about everyone in the movie trying, in their own way, to heal from trauma. I cried several times throughout the movie. After the movie, the presenters admitted crying throughout the movie despite watching it three times. I also learned that rehab isn’t finished in the 30 day programs or residential outpatient treatment centres that I normally hear about but can take one to two years and is long-term rehab. That surprised me because its not something that I had ever thought about but its much like weaning yourself off some drugs prescribed to treat asthma, arthritis, or other medical problems. Combine the addiction with the trauma which can also take time to come to grips with and they both take time to heal. So governments deciding to defer support for individuals dealing with trauma is wrong because we can’t afford it as a society, we need to provide help before individuals self medicate and become addicted or pay later through long term treatment. Click here to watch this video which I strongly recommend everyone watch.
Filmed over a decade, Us and Them is a deeply visceral film about transformation through human connection.
It begins when filmmaker Krista Loughton is questioned by addiction expert Dr. Gabor Maté about her need to relieve pain in the world. This takes her back in time, when she befriended four chronically homeless people in an effort to help them heal their lives.
These four charismatic people reveal the heartrending realities of their lives. The severe challenges of life on the street are portrayed with an unapologetic openness, in both emotive and humorous ways. All are struggling with addiction issues rooted in their painful childhood histories.
Krista finds a mentor in Reverend Allen Tysick, a street minister who dedicated his life to serving the poorest of the poor. Watching him build a new facility for the street community inspires her to create change in her own way.
Years ago, she had been introduced to the First Nations Medicine Wheel and its success helping former addicts maintain recovery. Under the mentorship of Hereditary Chief Phil Lane Jr., she decides to teach her friends how to balance on the Medicine Wheel. They learn to take stock of themselves physically, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally, in an attempt to help balance and heal their lives.
In the beginning there is connection and hope, but unfortunately at the end of their time working with the Medicine Wheel, none are able to conquer their addictions nor substantially change their lives. And then tragically, one dies.
Out of her league, Krista seeks out the counsel Dr. Maté, who forces her to confront her own motivations. Krista confesses her own emotional struggles with her remaining street friends. They display an extraordinary empathy and wisdom no one could have anticipated.